She doesn't search for approval.
She knows she's already been approved
She doesn't search for approval.
She knows she's already been approved
Claim Your Leadership Potential
Discover Who You Are in Christ and Step into Your God-Given Impact
Transform Self-Doubt into Confidence, Discover Your Calling, and Lead with God's Guidance
Have you ever wondered if you were meant for more? That you have unique talents and a burning desire to step up and make a difference, guided by your faith? Yet, perhaps something deep within holds you back – the voice of self-doubt or not knowing where to begin. If these thoughts resonate with you, you're in the right place.
I'm Dara Koenig, a Christian leadership coach, author, and speaker. Even though I am successful in many areas I know what it's like to wrestle with insecurities, to feel lost, and to question my ability to lead. Yet, through a profound understanding of my identity in Christ, I discovered a strength and calling I never thought possible. Now, my mission is to help women like you do the same. Together, we'll unlock the powerful leader within, guided by unwavering faith, and focused on leaving a lasting impact on the world.
The 3 I's of Leadership Framework
Identity
The Foundation of Leadership
As a Christian woman, your identity as a beloved daughter of God is the foundation for everything you do – including how you lead. When you know who you are in Christ, you gain the confidence and clarity you need to step into your calling.
Overcome Self-Doubt: Let's replace the voice of insecurity with the truth of who God says you are - capable, gifted, and worthy.
Discover Your Purpose: Your identity holds the key to unlocking the unique way God wants you to lead and make a difference in this world.
After spending years battling the lie that I wasn't good enough, God transformed my life. When I was filled with His truth about who He created me to be, I finally developed unshakable confidence. My identity was no longer tied to shifting feelings or the words of others, but anchored in the promises of God's Word. That's the kind of confidence I'm here to help you discover.
Integrity
Live Your Values, Inspire Others
As a Christian leader, your integrity is essential. When you live in alignment with your faith, your actions and words become a powerful beacon, inspiring others to follow.
Ethical Decision-Making: Navigating challenging situations can be daunting. Let's develop a framework for making God-honoring choices that align with your values. We'll cover practical strategies and Biblical principles to guide you on your leadership journey.
Influence Through Action: Leadership isn't just about what you say, but how you live. Discover how your actions can inspire, motivate, and earn the trust of those you lead. Together, we'll identify steps to ensure your behavior reflects your faith and has a positive impact on the world.
Integrity is the bridge between identity in Christ and the influence you desire. Once you know who you are, doing the right thing comes naturally. This builds trust – when others see your values in action, they're open to being influenced for good.
Influence
Make a Kingdom Impact
As a Christian woman leader, your influence extends far beyond titles or positions. It's woven into the fabric of your relationships and interactions, shaping the world around you.
Everyday Influence: We all have a sphere of influence, impacting those closest to us – our families, friends, and colleagues. Discover how your daily choices, words of encouragement, and Christ-like actions can inspire others and create a ripple effect of positivity.
Leadership Amplification: Whether you lead a team at work, a small group at church, or simply head your household, your influence takes center stage. We'll equip you with practical tools and strategies to leverage your leadership for good, fostering a spirit of collaboration, service, and excellence.
The question isn't whether you have influence, but how you'll choose to use it. Schedule your free Discovery Call today and let's explore how to turn your influence into a powerful force for God's Kingdom!
Accelerate Your Leadership Journey:
Expert Coaching, Inspiring Speaking, Faith-Based Transformation
With over two decades of experience empowering women, I offer more than just coaching. My approach blends practical leadership strategies with the life-changing power of the 3 I's Framework (Identity, Integrity, Influence). Whether it's through one-on-one coaching, inspiring keynote addresses, conferences like Equipping Ambassadors, or the transformative Fill(ed) devotional series, I'm committed to equipping you with the tools and inspiration to unlock your full potential. Together, we'll craft a personalized plan to help you overcome obstacles, amplify your influence, and leave a lasting legacy as a Christian woman leader.
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Let's discuss your leadership aspirations, identify areas where you lack confidence, and create a clear roadmap guided by your faith. Whether you're seeking guidance on specific leadership scenarios, or want to deepen your understanding of how faith applies to your work, this call is your starting point.
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Who Do You Think You Are?
“For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.” Ephesians 2:10.
I spent my life thinking I was good for one thing as a result of what was spoken over me when I was young. My value, my identity, who I was, what I would do with my life, the people I would have around me were all to be dictated by this one thing. What is worse, it wasn’t only what I thought I was good for it was what I thought I was created for. Eventually I learned how to use it. I embraced who I thought I was. I owed it so to speak. This lead to some pretty precarious and compromising situations. But still what I told myself was if I just did Y, would they see X, but I knew it couldn’t ever be true. Yet my soul longed for more. I craved someone to see beyond the shallow, to look deeper into who I was and see my heart. To have my identity be closer to who I wanted to be, but I knew that couldn’t ever be true.
Who can relate to knowing this you, this you that everybody says is you, isn’t really you? ... But yet it is.
Who we are is a deep seated issue. The words of others shape and define who we say we are. Blessed is the one who had loved ones who spoke life into them. It is all too common however to grow up surrounded with people who are careless with their words or worse use them deliberately to cut, wound, to destroy the goodness and potential within. Ok maybe that is a bit extreme. Instead things were said that compared us with others, pointing out how we don’t measure up. Perhaps it was a sibling who got better grades, or a cousin or friend that made life seem flawless while you struggled with school, sports or were just an awkward kid in general. It didn’t have to be the words of someone close to us to distort our identity. Are the careless words of another, even a stranger, still ringing in your ear, playing over and over as you discuss with yourself who you are?
Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me. False! Talk about a lie from the enemy. We know words have power. We know the damage words can do. Sometimes a broken bone may actually be easier to heal from than a vicious attack of words.
You believe the words of others.
You believe the words you say.
But do you know what God says about you?
The very first thing God’s word says about mankind is, what, we are made in His image. Genesis 1:26 “Let us make human beings in our image to be like us….”I don’t know about you but I have a hard time thinking of God as anything less than beautiful. So right away ladies, and men, you should know you are stunning, you are gorgeous, you are handsome. You are beautiful. Yes the outside too.It is no wonder Satan hates us. When he sees us he’s see’s God’s image in us.
Verse 22 “So God created human beings in his own image. In the image of God he created them; male and female.” NLT. We see here God said then it became true.
God says so many things about us.
You are known. Palm 139:1 “Lord you have searched me and known me”
You are loved. Isaiah 54:10 “For the mountains may move and the hills disappear but even then my faithful love for you will remain. ….”
And the greatest one yet that wraps everything into one solid statement. It speaks directly to not only who we are but what we will accomplish with our lives.
“For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.” Ephesians 2:10.
Think of an earthly masterpiece. What does that bring up within you? Words like valuable. Priceless. One of a kind. Wikipedia describes masterpiece as a creation that is considered the greatest work of a person's career. You are God’s masterpiece. And, we can do the good things God planned for us long ago! I don’t know about you but I will gladly partake in any good thing from God.
Let’s be real for a moment now.
Tell me, have you ever thought these things about yourself:
I’m stupid/ dumb
I am nobody
I am not important
I am ugly
I am unloved
I can’t do anything right
Or what about just, I can’t?
You say these things because you believe them to be true but these things are in direct conflict to what God says about you.
So, if God is the creator of the universe…who are you to tell God that He is wrong?
That is what you are doing every time you say these negative things of yourself.
You say:
I’m stupid/dumb. You’re telling God he made you less than his best.
I’m nobody, not important. You are denying your value and relationship with him.
I’m unloved. Does his love count for nothing? Does he not love you? Does he not think you are amazing?
Who is right, God or you?
If it’s God; stop telling him that he’s wrong.
Let’s stand on the words God has spoken over us. Let’s speak back to ourselves, and to others, his truth. Jesus said we are brothers and sisters. We are adopted into the family. We are heirs to the kingdom of heaven. We are whole, we are forgiven, we are powerful, loved and of sound mind. And most importantly we are good.
“Then God looked over all he had made, and he saw that it was very good. “ Genesis 1:31
Know you are not alone in this. The devil questioned Jesus’ identity, so why should you be any different?
Learn what God says about you.
Know it.
Believe it.
Live it.
Watch yourself step into everything He created you to be.
Client Testimonials
“My relationship with God has been one of trust and intensely personal. At one time, I talked daily, if not hourly with Him in prayer. Life and people got in the way of this relationship. Due to some extremely hurtful actions done towards me at a church, my life fell apart. I always believed in God but the daily communications had gone by the wayside as the hurt continued to echo in my life. Dara has taught me that it’s okay to hurt, but it’s not okay to keep going in the direction I was going. She re-awakened my desire to spend time with God each and every day and to re-establish the relationship I once had. She also encouraged me to include my husband in prayer and in a bible study, which we had not done for years. Her guidance has been essential to help me re-establish what I had lost. God worked behind the scenes by bringing Dara as my coach. Dara has gently guided me to move one step at a time forward in my life. I am still a work in progress but without Dara, I would be holding God at arms distance.“
“I am so excited about painting this new picture of my life, working in my inner self, and becoming the best version of me.
Dara has been a huge support in this amazing way, her empathy, kindness, and patience along with her strong knowledge and dedication, made this journey an amazing experience.”
“My coach not only listens to everything I say she digs into the WHY behind what I am feeling and equips me with the tools to make changes. She doesn’t tell me what to do she empowers me! I am now hopeful and excited about my future. Having Dara as my Coach has been such an amazing experience.”